Courage 2 Love

Today i was helping a boy to do his makeover as a New Year Resolution for himself to have a brand new image for 2009...

While i was bringing him shopping in TopMan at Raffles City, I can't help to overhear a conversation by a group of young girls nearby... *I'm not eavesdropping but more of they talk loudly only :P*

Girl A said if you really like him, just be courageous and tell him... Girl B said don't be to courageous in case he don't like you... And the girl said Do i need courage to love? None of her friends manage to answer her...

If i guess it correctly, the girl today is secretly in love with someone and 2 of her friends are giving her 2 different opinions on what she should do... If you are her, whose advise will you choose?

Do i need courage to love????

And the answer is YES... Love is not just a simple "I LOVE U" or "I MISS U"... Love is more about accepting and taking it all in you for the person you claimed you are in love with...

For the girl situation, she has 2 options... To let or not let him know how she feels... For her, if she choose to let him know, does she have to courage to accept the consequences after that... Acceptance or rejection is just a word different... But it take lots of courage to accept either one...

If she choose not to let him know, does she have the courage to see him in other people arms, does she have the courage to see him with other people...

Frankly speaking, not everybody will be able to handle the truth...

People say Love is Blind... When you are in love, you see nothing but the wonderful things about the person... People say Love is Forgiving... But how much courage it take you to forgive.... People say Love is Accepting... But how much courage you need to accept him/her for who he/she is without changing him/her...

I say Love is Courage... Cos without it, you will never venture into love... Without it, you will not dare to say I LOVE U... Without it, you will not be able to let go... Without it, you will not fall in love again after each heartbreak...