F.R.I.E.N.D.S

In life, people come and go… There are people that come by yourself and stay with you through the high n low, up and down, happy or sad of your life… And they are who we called F.R.I.E.N.D.S

I can never imagine myself without friends… And this is coming from someone who has been an introvert during his childhood and teenage days… The changes come only when I was enlisted to serve the country.

When I was young, I never have much friend except for 1… My childhood is basically school, home, school, home and work come in slightly earlier for me as my parents were not so well to do in the first place… So I do not have the luxury to hang around with friends and just enjoy my childhood life… I need to make end meet too… So I don’t really hang around with them because hanging around, going out need money…

But things changed when I was enlisted… To be frank, I was literally force to make friends because of the staying in and stuff… I do not have the luxury of my own home to hide and shield me from the outside world anymore… Remember the very first day in Army, I am so scared… Not scared of Army but scared living with people… I remember my sergeant talking to me and I must have given him the scare looks to him that… He actually takes good care of me during BMT and counseling me along the way to help me open up to the people around me… But hey, people change and so do I… Never look back since then…

Can you actually imagine your life without friends? Do you still think that your life will be the same without them around you?

I once read a blog entry knows as friends who say that friend come and go and does true friendship really exist. My answer is YES… Why? Because you want them to be… I guess by now most of you who read my blog would have realized that most of my entry is about people controlling their own life… Be it anything in your life… So does friendship…

Friendship is a type of love that you posses in you naturally… I never thought I can have friends until I met my sergeant and we become friends…

This is the funny part here… A friend of mine actually classified his friends into different groups… I not sure whether you will agree to it or not but then no harm writing here and let see how many of you agree to it…

Type 1: Hi-bye Friend
This is a classification which as the type name have shown… You are not really closed to this group of friends but whenever you get a chance to meet up, you will still greet each other… Nothing more than just a Hello and Goodbye...

Type 2: Normal Friend
In his definition, this is a group of friend you hang out with but not the type you will talk to about everything… It also means you will have a more reserved conversation with each other.

Type 3: Good friend
People you can talk to about your secret but not meeting up often somehow put a barrier in the friendship… It like you want to talk but not sure to talk or not kind of friends but when started talking, you will

Type 4: Best/Close Friend
This is the least number of friends in your life. Everyone of us just need a minimal number of close friends to be with that you can really talk to and pour your heart out on anything under the sun… And most time, you will turn to this group of friends as a support in be it decision making or helping you with certain things…

Do you actually agree with this?