The Power of L.O.V.E

I am not sure why I have decided to rewrite it… But then again a little somebody inside tell me to make certain modification… As you know, most time when you make modification to certain thing to a passage, it will not mean the same… So before I realized it, I have actually rewritten the whole entry…

Seriously after I have started to blog, it has been a rollercoaster ride for my emotion… Not sure whether this is good or bad but then I just cannot stop blogging… Since my first blog entry where I have no idea to the point where I decided to use a story to represent my life to missing my grandmother to the missing of my best friend and also the numerous story that I have posted so far… I find that I am actually moving toward a topic where most people need or waiting to happen… And that is LOVE…

In my blog, I used different way of interpretation to showcase a few different type of love… Not really sure whether you all love what you have read so far but I guess I am still trying very hard to make it work…

And thanks for the heartfelt comments and shout that some of you have left me… I really appreciated with gratitude…

This is actually what I want to talk about today in my own personal view of The Power of Love…

Have you ever met someone in your life who tells you that they don’t need love? They don’t believe in relationship? They don’t believe in true love?

I have met many in my life and seriously at this particular time of my life, I don’t believe in love either but somehow or another, I know I am motivated by it everyday… Not so much of a relationship kind love, but love from friends, family and a special someone I guess…

So what is actually the power of love that I am trying to talk about? Seriously I am not sure as well but from the point of other friends… It’s about building something strong and that is what we called T.RU.S.T.

A friend once asked me “Have you ever wondered why most people after they fall in love, they just started to forget everything n trust the person they love? When you are in love, do you trust them totally?” I replied “Yes”

Then he continued “Have you also notice that when you are in love, the most important you want from this person is trust?” I replied “Yes”

I don’t really know why he asked me those questions then but I realized it myself recently after my recent relationship failure in Dec last year

Sentences like “I need to be able trust you first…” “I need to know I can trust you” “You have to trust me” etc does come out from most people very easily.

For example, in a long distance relationship, Trust is the most important component to maintain it but then again, how can you measure trust…? And if the person really give you trust, will you be able to give back the trust needed? What does trust mean in this situation then? Does it mean flirting around without sex mean you can be trusted? Or does it mean sleeping with other without being caught means trust? So what is the trust that people is asking for?

In actual fact, it not just long distance relationship, every relationship is like that…

But in most relationship, trust is only a word and not an action… Why do I say that?
A friend once told me that the reason why he can go out doing his own stuff including sex with others is because his girlfriend trusted him so much and she will not suspect anything as long as he showed that he cared for her and she can trust him… It just that simple… And you must be thinking are they still together… The answer is YES and plan of getting married is being materialized… So why are they still together? It is because the girlfriend trusted him wholeheartedly…

To be frank, I am also hurt by trust… I was in a relationship when I find out that the person I loved has been cheating behind my back and even fall in love with the fling... But before I find out, I never suspected anything except for the sudden change of behaviour but I still pretend it could be stress or stuff from work… But in the end, when I find out, all I get is a sms telling me that it over between us…

I am not sure how people will react to the following sentence but at least to me, I think it is right to say that…

“Trust has always been the foundation of all unconditional love… Trust build the foundation of all love, Trust give people the power to love... But most people misuse the word Trust…”