I happen to hear this dedication on a radio station while I was driving home one day… Somehow the dedication made me want to write a blog entry…
The dedication means “I am just too immature in my life and this relationship… I never know I have cause you so much pain and unhappiness… I always see things my way and neglect yours… Now that there is no turning back for us… I really wish that thing will be better for you… I’m Sorry for everything….” (Not the actual words)
I really find it very true most time when we are in love, we tends to slip into the direction when we make our decision… We only see things our way… When we stop loving someone, we just disappeared from the person life thinking that Time will heal… But sometimes, it doesn’t… What you think is the best way may not be the best way for another person…. We will always neglect the smallest details that can be added into something big and then no turning back then we realized “It’s too late…”
Someone in my life went through 2 relationships back to back when the other party just sends him a sms and a msn to say that it over… Since then the person totally vanished from his life… At that time, he was really miserable, he committed suicide but he survived… I guess he is just being naïve… Cos the other party never understands the pain he goes through… But in the split moment, he just thinks that only death can heal the pain…
What it mean for you may not necessary be the best for the other party… When you want to have a group outing, he/she may only want to be sometime alone with you… When you want to go out, he/she may just want to stay home and cuddle… When you wanted trust, he/she may want the same from you… When you wanted commitment, he/she may not be ready… When you think that you no longer love, he/she may just want to have a chance again…
In the initial stage, maybe it is true but when time goes by… One start pondered how true this sentence is…
The dedication means “I am just too immature in my life and this relationship… I never know I have cause you so much pain and unhappiness… I always see things my way and neglect yours… Now that there is no turning back for us… I really wish that thing will be better for you… I’m Sorry for everything….” (Not the actual words)
I really find it very true most time when we are in love, we tends to slip into the direction when we make our decision… We only see things our way… When we stop loving someone, we just disappeared from the person life thinking that Time will heal… But sometimes, it doesn’t… What you think is the best way may not be the best way for another person…. We will always neglect the smallest details that can be added into something big and then no turning back then we realized “It’s too late…”
Someone in my life went through 2 relationships back to back when the other party just sends him a sms and a msn to say that it over… Since then the person totally vanished from his life… At that time, he was really miserable, he committed suicide but he survived… I guess he is just being naïve… Cos the other party never understands the pain he goes through… But in the split moment, he just thinks that only death can heal the pain…
What it mean for you may not necessary be the best for the other party… When you want to have a group outing, he/she may only want to be sometime alone with you… When you want to go out, he/she may just want to stay home and cuddle… When you wanted trust, he/she may want the same from you… When you wanted commitment, he/she may not be ready… When you think that you no longer love, he/she may just want to have a chance again…
Penny of thought
“LOVE is only about the 2 of you…” But how true is this sentence…?
In the initial stage, maybe it is true but when time goes by… One start pondered how true this sentence is…
Is LOVE really about the 2 of us…? Is it really true?
Or is it only about you…..?
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